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California Restraining Order Guide 2026 — Types, Process, and Defense

DVRO, civil harassment, elder abuse, and workplace orders under Family Code §6200 and CCP §527.6

By Sarah Chen · Updated June 15, 2026

A restraining order — what California courts call a "protective order" — is one of the fastest forms of relief the civil justice system offers. A judge can sign a temporary order the same day you file, before the other side even knows you walked into the courthouse. That speed is exactly why these orders are so consequential. For the protected person, they can mean safety. For the restrained person, they can mean losing the right to go home, to see their children, or to possess a firearm. Whether you are seeking protection or have just been served with papers from the San Diego Superior Court, understanding how California's four restraining-order systems work is the first step toward protecting your interests.

This guide walks through the four types of California restraining orders, the governing statutes, the step-by-step filing and response process in San Diego County, and the consequences that follow an order — including the firearm and custody implications that catch many people by surprise.

The Four Types of California Restraining Orders

California does not have a single, one-size-fits-all restraining order. The type you need depends entirely on your relationship to the other person and the nature of the conduct. Filing under the wrong statute is one of the most common reasons a request gets denied at the first hearing.

1. Domestic Violence Restraining Order (DVRO)

Governed by the Domestic Violence Prevention Act, Family Code §6200 and following, a DVRO is available only when there is a qualifying close relationship between the parties. Under Family Code §6211, that includes a current or former spouse or registered domestic partner, a current or former dating or engaged partner, a co-parent, a person you live or lived with, or a close relative such as a parent, child, or sibling. "Abuse" under Family Code §6203 is defined broadly — it is not limited to physical violence. It includes causing or attempting to cause bodily injury, sexual assault, placing someone in reasonable fear of serious harm, and the catch-all in Family Code §6320 covering harassing, stalking, threatening, contacting, or disturbing the peace of the other party.

2. Civil Harassment Restraining Order

When there is no close relationship — a neighbor, a coworker, a roommate you are not dating, a stranger, or a more distant relative — the correct vehicle is a civil harassment restraining order under Code of Civil Procedure §527.6. The standard is higher than for a DVRO. The petitioner must prove, by clear and convincing evidence, "unlawful violence, a credible threat of violence, or a knowing and willful course of conduct" that seriously alarms, annoys, or harasses the person and serves no legitimate purpose. Constitutionally protected activity does not count as harassment under §527.6.

3. Elder or Dependent Adult Abuse Restraining Order

For Californians aged 65 or older, or dependent adults aged 18 to 64 with qualifying physical or mental limitations, Welfare and Institutions Code §15657.03 authorizes a specialized protective order. It covers not only physical abuse and neglect but also financial abuse — a major issue in San Diego County, where elder financial exploitation cases are increasingly filed in the Superior Court's probate and family divisions.

4. Workplace Violence Restraining Order

An employer — not the employee — may seek a workplace violence restraining order under Code of Civil Procedure §527.8 on behalf of an employee who has suffered unlawful violence or a credible threat of violence at work. This is the tool a San Diego business uses to keep a threatening former employee or customer away from its premises.

Key deadline: California has no statute of limitations for filing a DVRO based on past abuse — but delay weakens your case. Judges weigh how recent the conduct was when deciding whether there is a present reasonable fear. If the most recent incident is months or years old, be prepared to explain why you are filing now.

Temporary vs. Permanent Orders: How the Timeline Works

Almost every restraining order case moves through two stages, and understanding the difference is critical because the legal standards and your rights are not the same at each stage.

The Temporary Restraining Order (TRO) is issued "ex parte" — meaning the judge can grant it based only on the petitioner's sworn paperwork, without the other side present. A San Diego judge typically rules on a TRO request the same day or the next court day. A TRO under Family Code §6300 lasts only until the hearing, generally 20 to 25 days. It is a stopgap designed to provide immediate protection while preserving the restrained party's right to be heard.

The permanent restraining order (the statute calls it an "order after hearing," though it is not literally permanent) is issued only after a noticed hearing where both sides can present evidence, testify, and cross-examine. Under Family Code §6345, a DVRO after hearing can last up to five years — or, in some cases, be issued permanently — and can be renewed before it expires without the petitioner needing to prove new abuse. A civil harassment order under CCP §527.6 can also last up to five years.

FeatureTemporary (TRO)After Hearing
Both sides heard?No — ex parteYes — full hearing
Typical duration20–25 daysUp to 5 years (DVRO/civil harassment)
Standard of proof (DVRO)Reasonable proof of abusePreponderance of the evidence
Renewable?NoYes (Family Code §6345)

How to File a Restraining Order in San Diego

The process is driven by Judicial Council forms, which are free and designed for people without lawyers. The exact forms depend on the type of order.

  1. Complete the request. For a DVRO, file form DV-100 (Request for Domestic Violence Restraining Order) plus DV-109 and DV-110. For civil harassment, use CH-100. Describe specific incidents with dates, locations, and what was said or done — vague allegations are the leading cause of denial.
  2. File with the court. Domestic violence requests are heard in the San Diego Superior Court's Family Division. There is no filing fee for a DVRO, elder abuse, or workplace violence order under Family Code §6222 and related provisions. Civil harassment filings may carry a fee unless the petition alleges violence.
  3. The judge reviews for a TRO. A judge reviews the paperwork — usually the same day — and decides whether to grant a temporary order.
  4. Serve the other party. The restrained person must be personally served with the papers before the hearing. You cannot serve them yourself; use the San Diego County Sheriff (free in DV cases) or another adult over 18.
  5. Attend the hearing. Both sides appear, typically within three weeks. If the petitioner does not show, the request is usually dismissed; if the respondent does not show, the order may be granted by default.
Warning: A restraining order is a court order, not a suggestion. Once it is in effect, even friendly contact initiated by the protected person does not cancel it. Only a judge can modify or terminate an order. If you are restrained and the other person invites contact, decline and return to court to formally change the order.

How to Respond If You Have Been Served

Being served with a restraining order does not make the allegations true, and you have a meaningful right to defend yourself. The single most important rule: obey the temporary order completely until the hearing, even if you believe it is unjust. Violating it hands the petitioner powerful evidence and exposes you to criminal charges.

To contest a DVRO, file form DV-120 (Response to Request for Domestic Violence Restraining Order) before the hearing, or for civil harassment, form CH-120. In your response you can deny the allegations, tell your side of the events, and attach declarations from witnesses. At the hearing you may testify, present text messages and other documents, and cross-examine the petitioner. Because the petitioner must prove the case, a well-prepared response showing the absence of credible fear — or that the petitioner is using the process tactically in a custody dispute — can defeat the request.

The Consequences People Underestimate

Firearm Prohibition

Any person subject to a domestic violence restraining order is prohibited from owning, possessing, or buying a firearm for the duration of the order. Under Family Code §6389 and Penal Code §29825, the restrained person must sell to a licensed dealer or turn in any firearms to law enforcement, typically within 24 hours, and file a receipt with the court. This applies to the order-after-hearing and, in many cases, the TRO. A federal prohibition under 18 U.S.C. §922(g)(8) can also attach.

Custody and Visitation

A finding of domestic violence triggers a rebuttable presumption under Family Code §3044 that giving custody to the abusive parent is detrimental to the child. In a San Diego family law case, a restraining order can reshape an entire custody arrangement, which is precisely why these orders are sometimes contested so vigorously.

Criminal Exposure for Violations

Violating any protective order is a separate crime under Penal Code §273.6. A first violation is generally a misdemeanor carrying up to one year in county jail and a fine of up to $1,000. A second violation within seven years, or one involving an act of violence, can be charged as a felony. These cases are prosecuted in the criminal divisions of the San Diego Superior Court, separate from the underlying civil restraining-order matter.

San Diego practical note: Domestic violence restraining order hearings are heard at the Family Court at the Central Courthouse downtown, while civil harassment matters are handled in the civil divisions. Confirm your assigned courthouse and department on your DV-109 or CH-109 notice of hearing before your date — appearing in the wrong location can cost you your hearing.

Getting Help

Restraining order law sits at the intersection of family law, criminal law, and constitutional rights. The forms are free and the process is designed to be navigable without counsel, but the stakes — custody, firearm rights, and a record that follows you — lead many San Diego County residents to consult an attorney, especially for a contested hearing. If your matter also involves a tenancy or a separation, it can overlap with related issues such as California eviction and tenant rights. For protection-order specific help, the San Diego restraining order attorneys in our directory handle both petitions and defenses.

Frequently Asked Questions

How long does a California restraining order last?
A temporary restraining order (TRO) generally lasts 20 to 25 days until the hearing under Family Code §6300. After a noticed hearing, a domestic violence order under Family Code §6345 can last up to five years and be renewed, and a civil harassment order under CCP §527.6 can also run up to five years.
What is the difference between a DVRO and a civil harassment order?
A Domestic Violence Restraining Order under Family Code §6200 requires a close relationship — spouse, former partner, co-parent, or close relative as defined in Family Code §6211. A civil harassment order under CCP §527.6 covers everyone else, such as neighbors, coworkers, or strangers, and requires proof by clear and convincing evidence.
What happens if you violate a restraining order in California?
Violating a protective order is a crime under Penal Code §273.6 — generally a misdemeanor with up to one year in county jail and a fine of up to $1,000. A second violation within seven years, or one involving violence, can be charged as a felony.
Does a restraining order take away my guns?
Yes. Under Family Code §6389 and Penal Code §29825, a person subject to a domestic violence restraining order must relinquish all firearms — typically within 24 hours — and cannot own or buy a firearm while the order is in effect. A parallel federal ban under 18 U.S.C. §922(g)(8) may also apply.

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